I spent this past weekend at a campsite for the Posse Plus Retreat. I went into the retreat with a very negative outlook which I based on last year’s experience. Upon reaching the grounds, I was placed in a 10-person cabin, mostly with people I wasn’t familiar with. When the program began, I was reluctant to do any icebreakers or engage with other attendees so I stuck with my friends and avoided extra interactions.
My crowded cabin turned out to be a lot of fun as people came in and out throughout the night, leaving me and my roommates with little-to-no sleep. The next morning I felt more inclined to talk to different people, probably as a result of both my sleep deprivation and spending the whole night with a plethora of interesting people. Towards the end of the night, everyone was tired and conversations became more and more emotional. After spending some time writing letters to our future selves, we got the chance to share what we wrote in front of the whole program. As people were sharing, I heard a lot of reminders for self-love and perseverance but one quote in particular stuck with me. It came from an international student from Ghana who recited a quote he grew up hearing: “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” When I heard this, I felt like I got hit with a brick wall. All throughout my life I’ve always wanted to do everything myself so I had full control and went at the pace I wanted. I’ve always appreciated companionship, but I never looked at it as a necessity for the longevity of success.
Inspiration comes in different ways such as a scenic view, a meaningful conversation, or a substantial event. Hearing this inspired me to change the way I perceive success and how to be more trusting and engaging with people, because maybe I can learn a thing or two from someone else.
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